4/18/26

The Proust Questionnaire | Tanya Mendonsa

                                                                             

Tanya Mendonsa with Joshua

                                                                                      
Perfect Happiness

To wake to the sight of roses with my dog heavily and warmly asleep alongside me


My most marked characteristic 

My forceful opinions


Greatest extravagance

Buying plants at a nursery, especially roses


Favourite occupation

Reading in front of a green view/lunching in the sun with my friends


Deplore in others

Emptiness of mind and heart


Greatest regret

Not having lived in the English countryside in spring and summer


Most deplore in self

Judging others


What change in self

The same


Whom I despise

All bureaucracy


When would I lie?

A lot, whenever it harmed no one


Most overrated virtue

Self-satisfaction


Lowest Misery

Ill health


Most like in men

Charm and good looks


Most like in women

Charm and intelligence of the heart


Fictional hero

Rhett Butler


In real life

Alexander the great


Favourite journey

Anywhere beautiful by road, through rivers and hills, in good weather


Motto

If I can't have too many truffles, I'll do without truffles - Colette


To return as

George Herbert, the poet/ or a great gardener with money and a large garden


Hate most

Selfishness and hypocrisy


Favourite Words

Love, Love, Love

 

Bio:Tanya Mendonsa was educated at Loreto House and College in Calcutta, India. After spending 20 years in Paris, studying French literature at the Sorbonne, painting and running a language school, she returned to India, a story told in her memoir "The Book of Joshua – The True Story of a Dog Who Loved The World" (Harper Collins 2012). Her first collection of poetry, "The Dreaming House" (2009) and her second collection "All The Answer I Shall Ever Get" (2011) were both published by Harper Collins. A single long poem, "The Fisher of Perch – A Fable for Our Times" (2017) and her second memoir, "A Bite In Time – Cooking with Memories" (2022) were published by Paper Project. "Hidden Garden - A Haiku Life", an illustrated collection of short poems as well as her third collection of poetry "A Star, A Stone", will be published in 2026 by Paper Project.


Update: Answer to the question 'To return as' has been changed to George Herbert, instead of Henry King.  



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Delhi, August 2025, taken by Jerry Pyrtuh


Perfect happiness?

HM:Absence of all pain

My most marked characteristic?

HM:Individuality, my voice 

Greatest extravagance?

HM:Keeping/ Travelling to lovers 

Fav occupation? 

HM:Writing/ Being solicitous to friends 

Deplore in others?

HM:Self righteousness/ Madness

Greatest regret?

HM:Not forgiving my father 

Most deplore in self?

HM:Anger

What change in self ?

HM:Become practical 

Whom I despise?

HM:Trump

When would I lie?

HM:To save a friend 

Most overrated virtue?

HM:Social hypocrisy

Lowest misery? 

HM:Abject poverty

Most like in men?

HM:Physical beauty/ loyalty 

Most like in women? 

HM:Intelligence/ loyalty 

Fictional hero? 

HM:Krishna / Marguerite Yourcenar's Hadrian

In real life?

HM:Anais Nin

Favourite journey? 

HM:Darjeeling, Isfahan, Jerusalem, Borobudur 

Ideal Death? 

HM:In bed, with a lover beside me 

Motto?  

HM:Think long / write fast ( Hemingway)

To be reborn as? 

HM:Hart Crane/ Lorca/ Montgomery Clift

Hate most?

HM:Social hypocrisy 

My favourite words? 

HM:Liberation/ individuation